7/1/08

Aggression

I'm going to cover a basic summary of the different types of dog aggression. Keep in mind that there is a HUGE difference between dog/dog(animal) aggression and dog/human aggression.

1) Fear or nervous aggression. This is a common form of aggression for dogs and can be directed towards animals, people, objects and can even be triggered by scary places. Fear aggression is correctable with proper socialization and R+ training methods (You can read about Liwanu's battle with this on the blog 'Curbing the Violence')

2) Frustration aggression. Also known as fence-fighting or boundary aggression. Dogs who are kept in dog runs behind the house 24/7, are chained 24/7 or otherwise live a fairly isolated life (IE are not family pets, don't get to explore or meet other dogs/people) are prone to this type of aggression.

3) Sexual Aggression- This usually occurs between two intact males in regards to a female in heat. Females may show aggression towards other females during their season or even the male if they are not receptive to his behavior.

4) Territorial Aggression- The name speaks for itself. Many people mistakenly think that this type of aggression is appropriate because they have never seen how quickly it can get out of hand. Anything the dog regards as 'their property' is defended often with serious injury being done. Many dog attacks happen because of someone mistakenly entering the dog's perceived territory and not knowing how to react to the initial threat display. NILIF is a great method to help break the cycle of territorial aggression.

5) 'Dominance' aggression- While I do not support the dominance theory, dogs do establish a ranking order when meeting other dogs. When two dogs meet who are equal rank or where one is trying to 'buck up' there is likely to be aggressive posturing, intimidation tactics and potentially a dog fight.

6) Predatory aggression- This is fairly straight forward as well. Predatory aggression is the act of fulfilling their prey drive. It comes into play when people, animals or other objects appear to be running from the dog.

There are more, but I think I've covered the basics for now. It comes down to a very simple fact. Aggression is a serious issue and correcting it takes help from a behaviorist. Because of the complex body language and various cues (many of which can barely be seen by an unblinking human eye) the average dog owner is not capable of telling which type of aggression their dog has, which makes it very difficult for them to correct.

Ian Dunbar's Bite Assessment Scale

Level 1- Dog growls, lunges, snarls-no teeth touch skin. Mostly intimidation behavior.

Level 2- Teeth touch skin but no puncture. May have red mark/minor bruise from dog’s head or snout, may have minor scratches from paws/nails. Minor surface abrasions acceptable.

Level 3- Punctures ½ the length of a canine tooth, one to four holes, single bite. No tearing or slashes. Victim not shaken side to side. Bruising.

Level 4- One to four holes from a single bite, one hole deeper than ½ the length of a canine tooth, typically contact/punctures from more than canines only. Black bruising, tears and/or slashing wounds. Dog clamped down and shook or slashed victim.

Level 5- Multiple bites at Level 4 or above. A concerted, repeated attack.

Level 6- Any bite resulting in death of a human.

Cesar Milan has over simplified aggression for dogs. In his mind all dogs are aggressive from fear or dominance. He calls every dog that performs Level 2 or above a 'red-zone' case and overall makes it sound as if they were a lot worse than they actually are. As the above scale illustrates, there are several different levels of severity in aggression. Liwanu for instance; was at worst a 3+ which in the big picture isn't that bad. It's not good and it doesn't make him less of a danger but it doesn't mean he needs to be put down for being vicious. Levels 5 & 6 are the ones that most likely will need to be humanely euthanised because most owners are not capable of putting the time, energy and money into rehabilitating them. I really hate the term 'rehabilitation' because Cesar Milan has decided to use it as a catch phrase. Using R+ methods aggressive dogs can be healed and eventually can be integrated into a very average lifestyle. I would never consider an aggressive dog cured, it's more like being a recovering addict. Each day that the dog is able to maintain appropriate behavior is a success. There will be back-slides and gains, it's part of life for everything and everyone.


6/25/08

BSL, MSN and other Anti-Dog laws....

For those who are not familiar with the terms I'll give a brief run-down.

BSL= Breed Specific Legislation. BSL is aimed at dogs who fit a certain type considered dangerous. The problem is that there is almost no way to tell a dog's definite breed without a large pedigree listing it's lineage. Rottweilers, 'pit bulls', boxers, Dobermans and such are all under attack. These dogs are judged by the actions of animals owned by uncaring/irresponsible owners which in turn ruins it for the rest of us.

MSN= Mandatory Spay/Neuter. MSN was recently passed in L.A. (I believe, I'll correct it if I'm wrong). It requires early spay/neuter and breeders need to buy a permit in order to have their animals intact. It also requires written documentation of medical reasons if a pet cannot be spayed. This was originally thought of as a solution to BYBs and Puppy mills. Since the people responsible for puppy mills and BYB facilities don't follow laws, MSN only punishes the responsible.

There is a way to correct the dog bite problem and reduce the pet overpopulation problem. It doesn't require laws punishing the responsible and it does work.

http://www.windsorhumane.org/pdfs/Bill%20Bruce.pdf
http://caveat.blogware.com/blog/_archives/2007/1/29/2694938.html

Essentially, Calgary has reduced their dog bite stats, increased licensing and increased owner responsibility. How you ask? Like this:

In grade school, their children are taught the 'Four Pillars of Owner Responsibility'. Their children learn from an early age (which is how it should be) that companion animals are not just throw away toys.

The Four Pillars of Owner Responsibility:

1) Companion Animals need to be licensed and Permanently Identified. This is fairly simple and inexpensive if only people in the US would do it.

2) Companion Animals should be spayed and neutered for their health and to prevent accidental litters.

3) Always provide the necessary food, training, exercise and care for companion animals.

4) Never allow your pet to become a nuisance or danger to the community.

Are these things really that hard?? It seems to me that it's cheaper and less time consuming just to do the above list than to face criminal charges, fines and steep medical bills. Experience should have taught us that criminals do NOT follow the laws. By adding more laws to what we have, only the law-abiding citizens suffer. Please take this to heart and pass it on! Teach your children the Four Pillars and volunteer to do an Assembly at your local schools. By preventing the creation of right removing laws we protect the future of our country.

Owner Responsibility..PT 2

I promise I'll get off my podium regarding this subject after this post.

This is more geared towards those who own large breed (over 50 lbs) or dogs who are typically seen as 'vicious', 'dangerous' or overly strong breeds. More specifically, the owners of bully breeds, German Shepherds, Rottweilers, Hounds etc need to pay attention.

I firmly believe that we who choose to own these beautiful, working dogs have added responsibility. It is part of our duty to provide everything in the previous post AND go the extra mile to ensure our dogs project a positive image for their breed. Liwanu is a mix. I know what breeds he consists of because of physical attributes, temperament characteristics and behavior traits. Since I know what he is, I know how he looks it is my job to ensure that no one gets hurt by him. Behaviors that other dogs can get away with are unacceptable. A growling Chihuahua would make everyone laugh, a growling 90lb mutt isn't as humorous.

As hard as it is, we need to have higher standards for our dog's behavior. Anything that could hurt or scare another is unacceptable. It's not fair that our dogs have to go above and beyond but in order to fight the misconception the Media blatantly throws to the public it is on our shoulders to prove them wrong.

This doesn't mean you hurt or get rid of a chow mix who has some behavior issues...it simply means that you need to take time and money out of your shoe or restoration car project to put into a behaviorist or R+ trainer. Pick up a book and read. Do what you can and if all fails at least you tried.

6/19/08

Owner-Responsiblity

SURELY THESE DOGS DESERVE DEATH!

When they came for the pit bulls,
I remained silent;
Surely these dogs deserved death!

When they banned the rottweilers,
I remained silent;
Who needs these dogs?

When they came for the guardian breeds,
I did not speak out;
My dog was not one of these.

When they came for the large dogs,
I remained silent;
My dog was small.

When they came for all dogs,
there was no one left to fight with me.


There was a time when Americans stood united to protect our way of life as well as our property. Our society has deteriorated into a self-absorbed mess. No longer do we offer kindness to each other, no longer do we see the government as working for us. We blindly accept the decrees they make and are content with our rights being washed away in a tide of idiocy. We allow the media to brain-wash us into following the agendas of ARA (animal-rights activists) and other non-political organizations. I support animal welfare and animal rights, I do not support the mass extinction of a species based on it's body type.

Dogs cannot be held responsible for their actions (legally) because they are considered 'dumb' by law. The responsibility is completely on the owner. I have a 'dangerous' dog. He truly is dangerous because of his fear-aggression, unpredictable tendencies and the fact that he's 90lbs and knows how to use his weight. These things combine to make him a serious threat to the general public. I know that my dog can and will hurt someone if I am not constantly alert to the surroundings. I have set a protocol down for our daily routines and I always have a back up plan. Because I know this, I step up and go the extra mile to ensure his safety and the safety of others.

As dog owners it's OUR DUTY to keep our animals safe from other people while simultaneously keeping other people safe from our animals. BSL (breed-specific legislation) is BULLSHIT because it does nothing to address the true problem behind fatal and non-fatal dog attacks. No dog has ever or will ever attack a person for no reason. We may not be able to see the reason (most commonly we cannot because we are not directly involved) but there is one. Simple reasons for dog attacks are; fear, stress, being trapped, pain and illness. A few safety tips for EVERY dog owner out there are:

1) Know your dog. What were they bred for? How did they do their job? How much energy do they have (this dictates how much time/exercise they'll need)? How do they handle new situations/people? How are their obedience commands?
2) Train your dog. If there are any behavioral issues which can be potential signs of things to come (such as food-aggression, growling/lunging/charging at people, hackling etc) seek a professional who uses positive reinforcement or pick up a book from my recommended reading list. ALL dogs should know basic obedience commands and respond to them well. Training is very important regardless of breed/size or how cute the dog is.
3) Know your area. Know the dogs/people around your home, along your walking route and anywhere that you leave your dog for periods of time. You don't need to know a name or their life story, just familiarize yourself with the faces so you can recognize characters that are out of place. Know which areas have children so that you can protect them and your dog from bombardment or it's effects.
4) Never take for granted that your dog is harmless. EVERY dog can and will bite if it's pushed too far. Make a plan for emergency and keep your dog secured inside the house, inside a REAL fence or on leash at all times. Invisible fencing is only moderately effective at keeping dogs in an area and it doesn't keep anyone out. Chained dogs are more likely to be aggressive and hurt people/animals because of their frustrations.

TO BE CONTINUED...........

5/10/08

Yet Another Disappointment

So far things are not falling together all that well. So far the money I've been working on saving up hasn't been lasting because situations keep popping up and it doesn't help that my boss currently owes me 150$ in back pay. Aello is teething (still or again not sure) and I haven't been able to supply her with appropriate chew-toys. Liwanu is being a big red oaf still. His behavior has mellowed a bit although he's still highly reactive to the emotions of those around him. It has caused me some trouble in the past and I'm sure it will cause problems in the future but for right now I will take baby steps with him and in our daily lives.

Overall, they are both coming along nicely. I found a new method for teaching 'heel' which I'm trying with them both since Liwanu needs help with his and she doesn't know it at all. Daily training sessions do us all good because it gives them mental exercise, teaches them appropriate behavior and gives me time to not worry about all the small things that stress me out. For each of those short sessions the only things that matter are me and the dogs which is welcome relief.

I am starting to wonder if I'm just choosing the wrong path which is why it isn't working out. Past experience has told me that when I'm headed the wrong way everything falls apart and goes to hell for me which is what is currently happening. This seems like the right path though. I mean, choosing to settle down in one place (for awhile anyway) and get a steady job is something that is socially expected, but it's just not working so maybe I'm making a mistake in my attempt to be 'normal'.

4/27/08

Another pending change


The top is Liwanu as a very young puppy. The bottom is Liwanu posed to the right (viewer's right) of his father, Damien.


Well, my boss/landlord "forgot" to pay the cable/internet bill for 3 MONTHS! so we lost the internet a week or two ago. Unable to get anything done I spent my days watching the fuzzy idiocy called TV and playing with the dogs.

Liwanu- Has begun showing less aggression towards strangers. Off-leash he's great but still needs people-work while on-leash. He's matured out a bit more and I'm actually thinking about finally getting his 'big-boy' collar and name tag. It really does seem like just the other day he was a tiny fluff ball. Now he's a huge cloddhopping beast.

Aello- Is still an energetic fluff ball although she's began to fill out into a more mature size. It's amazing how far she's come. When I got her she was an 8 lb little black thing with tiny little cut ears, now she's a 31lb black thing with cute bat ears. She's muscled and tall with a bit of brindling on her legs, face and chest.

It's amazing how fast they mature and grow. Their change from fluffy puppy to sleek adult truly brings home how quickly time goes by and that we should cherish them as long as we can. On a less sentimental note, I may be moving us out of here soon. I have to find out the rules and regulations for the two trailer parks and how much they'll work with me on rent/sec. deposit and then I'll know for sure. Hopefully I can pull this off. The good thing would be that the dogs and I would be safe and happier out there because I wouldn't have to deal with my boss other than for work related things. The downside is that I can't bring them on the bus with me so during the day they'd have to be crated for their safety.

I hate the idea of not being able to play with them all day every day but I've got to put their welfare ahead of my own selfish desires. If I can pull this off they will no longer be at the mercy of my boss's husband or broiling from my boss's unwillingness to get AC units. Liwanu is very sensitive to heat because he has a thick undercoat and Aello is black so heat is not a great thing for them to be exposed to.

4/4/08

A Note on Cats and Dogs

Growing up I heard a lot about cats and dogs fighting. It's a common misconception in America and the reference appears as a turn of phrase. The idea is that canines and felines don't get a long (fight like cats and dogs) are completely different (opposite as cats and dogs) and in general are incompatible with each other.

I can count on one hand the number of times that I've seen a cat and dog who were both well socialized at odds with each other. I currently reside in a house as a 'live-in nanny' where there are 4 dogs ranging from 7lbs (Hermes) to 25lbs (Aello) to 62lbs (Maxine) and ending with 85lbs (Liwanu). There are also two adult cats, mother and son, the female just had 5 kittens bringing the cat total to 7. There is mutual respect between both species and only the occasional dispute when one or the other gets too rough.

The adult male, Tiger, romps with the dogs and attends our walks. I often find myself saying 'he thinks he's a dog' even though that is a completely human concept. Tiger can rough-house with the best of them and displays many characteristics that would normally fall into the 'dog-realm' of life.

Maybe it's not their nature to be at odds with each other, maybe it's a role they fill because it's not in our nature to co-exist peacefully. Human beings do not have the inclination to develop benevolence. We are high-emotion, oppositional and apathetic as a species. It was our survival tool which led to us becoming the 'Apex Predator'. Because of our urge to humanize everything we often find ways to warp an animal's behavior so that we feel more of a companionship with them.

This tendency to displace our behaviors onto an animal is a HUGE disservice. By characterizing them we limit the possibilities within which they can live. It also leads to frustration, discomfort, fear, pain or death because we, the human, cannot understand why they, the humanized-animal, does something that they 'know' they aren't supposed to.

4/3/08

Puberty Strikes Again!


Liwanu's newest thing is humping. He's done it on and off for the past 7 months or so but never with as much single-mindedness as he is exhibiting right now. Furniture, people, animals and even random objects fall into his desire. It's odd. He's on Tardac (sp?) which is a chemical injection that acts much the same as neutering would. He shouldn't have this urge but for some odd reason, puberty has returned with a vengeance. His overall behavior is improving drastically.

He's madly in love with the kittens who were born to my boss's cat about 3 weeks ago. Is allowing people to walk past us at about 7 feet and even manages to remain sitting and focused when strangers appear to be walking towards us. I'm very proud of him.
That, of course, leads me to another small tangent. Several of my friends train and compete in the area of Shutzhund. For those who don't know; Shutzhund is a sport which can be likened to the training a police dog receives in order to trail and apprehend a suspect. The main differences are: Shutzhund teaches the dog to target an obvious target such as a bite-suit or sleeve. They are temperament tested and should not display anti-social behaviors above what an ordinary dog might under stress. Police dogs are not well socialized and are taught to target the actual body of the suspect. That makes them a loaded gun in the wrong hands. While having a discussion on another forum yesterday I do believe, she brought up a very good point which applies to me and the way I tend to treat Liwanu.

"Many American breeding programs have bred out the natural tendencies of many breeds. Take a look at the German Dobies vs. there American counterparts. Two very different dogs....same thing with the GSD and soooo many other breeds. Americans think all dogs should be like labs so we breed for that temperament even if it's wrong. This is not all American programs but it is the majority. That is why on GSD's (and Dobies) we see a split between the working line and show line dogs. It is becoming harder and harder to find a dog that can do the work and place in the conformation ring."
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NATASHA Z CERNA KNEZA

While I don't compete in any field of dog sports nor do I have purebred dogs, I can see how that mindset is causing me to stress about and over-react to Liwanu's behavior. I had false expectations when I first got him. I had the typical 'lab' in mind. He was NOTHING like a lab! (Still isn't). His temperament is unique. Part of it is genetic and the other was learned in the environment he has grown up in. This combination has left me with a GREAT dog! He may never be dumb and overly-friendly (like a lab) but that is ok. He is great at being what and who he is.


He drives me nuts quite frequently however, I have learned more from him than any other dog I've ever met. Through him I've learned to control my temper, keep a tight rein on my emotions (he's what I say is a dog who runs high on emotion) and thoroughly research into things before implementing them. I've learned about training, diet and exercise as well as getting the wonderful opportunity to see my own reflection through him. He is my mirror, when I'm stressed he is cranky and when I'm excited he's hyperactive. This has become a valuable tool in self-realization as well as aiding me in my quest of self-improvement.

3/31/08

Long Time:

Apparently my muse has been spending some sick leave lately. Every-time I sit down to write anything, I find myself drawing a complete blank. Liwanu has been doing awesome. His aggression has tapered off and I can walk him without the muzzle. Aello is still a royal pain in my rump so I guess it's all going to even out.

The issue of Liwanu's aggression leads me to a very serious matter. Guys (and Girls) it is NOT an intelligent idea to get a dog for 'protection' purposes. If you want to protect your house, storage or yard it is a much better idea to get an alarm system. Dogs who are not trained correctly are a huge liability risk and the intruder they are supposed to protect you against CAN and WILL sue you and many times they will win if your dog bites them (yes, even if they are in your bedroom with a gun to your head) and you lack the necessary notices. Many dogs who are gotten to serve as 'watch' dogs or 'protection' dogs end up dead, abandoned and tortured because they do not have the necessary drives to fill the role they are supposed to (according to the owner).

People, if you really need a dog for Personal or Home Protection, seek a trained dog from a professional. Make sure that you have the proper insurance, notices and be forewarned, there are insurance companies that discriminate not only by breed but by the dog's role in your life. NEVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ATTEMPT TO TRAIN YOUR OWN DOG WITHOUT THE HELP OF AN EXPERIENCED PROFESSIONAL!!!! (in this area at least.)

3/8/08

Another Rainy Day

Well, it's a gray boring day. Luckily I'm not prone to melancholy or else I'd be sniffling on the couch watching the daily soaps. I figure I'll take the camera and the dogs out to our normal spot and see if I can't get some action photos of them playing and chasing rabbits. I always worry that Liwanu is going to catch one and then I'm going to have to take it away. Maybe I'll sit out in the back yard and watch the storm roll through. I don't know but you won't find me sitting on the couch watching 'Gays of Our Lives' that's for sure.

I'm working on teaching Aello to 'Dance' which is pretty funny considering that it's more about catching a behavior she already performs and getting it on cue. If I had my clicker that would be easy, alas I've lost the clicker so now I've got to do it the old fashioned way.

Apparently a friend's next door neighbor broke into the house across the street and when the cops got there the place was ransacked and the owner was dead. Now, I wouldn't mention it except for the fact that this happened shortly before the dogs and I were in the area which means that all hell broke loose. The cops opened that door and there were five dogs that came charging out. Liwanu is not usually dog aggressive but the sight of these animals charging down on him as a group made him a tad bit nervous. Aello had no idea what was going on and buried herself behind my leg. Thanks to the help of my friend, three cops and a store owner we managed to get my dogs to safety and then round up the other five for collection by the Humane Society.

Now, the cops haven't charged anyone yet so I cannot say that the dude is responsible but apparently he's been running his mouth around town claiming to have been involved. Can we say Dumb-ass???

3/7/08

Simple Joys of Life



There's no time to kill between the cradle and the grave
Father Time still takes a toll on every minute that you save
Legal tender's never gonna change the number on your days
The highest cost of livin's dyin', that's one everybody pays
So have it spent before you get the bill, there's no time to kill
If we'd known ten years ago today would be ten years from now
Would we spend tomorrow's yesterdays and make it last somehow
Or lead the cheers in someone else's game and never learn to play
And see the rules of thumb are all the same that measure every day
The grass is green on both sides of the hill, there's no time to kill
No time to kill, even I've said it and probably always will
But I can look ahead and see that time ain't standin' still
No time to kill but time to change the kind of hurry I've been in
And quit this work and worry lookin' back at where I've been
If you don't look ahead nobody will, there's no time to kill
If we had an hour glass to watch each one go by
Or a bell to mark each one to pass, we'd see just how they fly
Would we escalate the value to be worth its weight in gold
Or would we never know the fortunes that we had 'til we grow old
And do we just keep killin' time until there's no time to kill
---Clint Black

I figure I'll take this post to mention some of the beautiful things in life that most people seem to miss. Every day we all go on about our lives never thinking of the wonderful things unfolding around us. We get so caught up in getting things done for tomorrow and the future, which results in death any way, that we forget about the things that surround us.

I took these pictures about two weeks ago when the dogs and I were caught out in a sudden storm. It's 4:30pm and within five minutes the clouds had rolled in to engulf the area. I couldn't help but sit and watch the storm begin it's deluge staying out well beyond the bounds of healthy dryness. Of the ten pictures those two are the only ones which turned out right.

I understand that it is hard to stop thinking about the future constantly however, which makes a better story in the end? "I was born, went to school, worked my butt off, retired and now I'm on my death bed" or "When I was born, such and such was going on. The year I become a high-school freshmen I saw this and this happen and I spent a year traveling the continent on foot before deciding on a career path". I would prefer my life story to be filled with adventures and suspense instead of being bland and uneventful.

When I take the dogs out, an hour long walk can turn into half a day of traveling because of the fact that I get caught up watching them run and play or staring at the cloud-shapes traveling along through the sky. My digi-camera is filled with pictures of cardinals, finches, rabbits and the dogs. Occasionally there is some landscapes or scenic views of the area but mostly it's some strange thing that people would never think to look at. One of my favorites is a picture of a grub the size of my big toe with a wasp climbing out of it's back. When I find it, I'll post it for all to see.

In short, it's not enough to stop and smell the roses. Since our lives are nothing but the passage of time between birth and rebirth, we need to absorb as much of the beauty and wonder as possible. There really is no way of telling when it's time to cash our chips so why spend our final moments thinking of what may have been if we'd 'only found the time'. Try waking up one morning and basking in the sunrise skyclad or attending a Beltane festival to dance the fire in nothing but skivvies and combat boots. You'll be amazed by what you learn when you make the space in your schedule for the un-ordinary.

3/6/08

HUZZAH!!! It's a GIRL!!!


Sorry folks, couldn't help it:D First let me start by saying: I apologize for my absence. Life caught up with me in a big way. There is quite a bit to catch up on but the most important shall come first.

There is an addition to my little family. She's 4 months old (give or take a week) and her name is Aello. As far as I can tell she's purebred APBT however due to her age I'm not going to argue on that point. I'll figure it out when she gets older.

The other big change is that I finally caved and threw the so-called-boyfriend out. I left him last year because he had gotten too deep into the booze and crack. He called me 6 months later claiming to be clean and in control of his alcohol. The amazing part was that I went and saw him and found that he was indeed doing much much better than when I'd left. I agreed to give him a second chance. He moved in with me and my boss's family sometime last September. I bet you know what's coming next....If you guessed that the honeymoon ended and he went back to the dope and hard drinking you are right *awards the 64$ dollars*

About two months ago he started blowing his entire unemployment check within days of getting it. At first there was quite a few doubts but most of the money could be accounted for on receipts. That changed. Soon he was going out and blowing off his responsibilities for crack. I threw him out of the house. I agreed to continuing to see him if he could get his butt back in line. Well, he couldn't so it's over and I'm in the market again:D.

The third big change is that I've got two prospects for getting the hell out of Maryland! *Crosses fingers and prays* I will finish out the school year watching these children and then hopefully the dogs and I are outta here. I can't stand this cesspool state so the faintest hope of rescue makes me giddy. I would hike it but since I'm on the peninsula I'd either have to cut through Delaware (adding a little over two hundred miles) or risk being stranded at the bay bridges. Pedestrians aren't allowed on the bridge off the Eastern Shore so it's a wait for a ride and hope you don't get picked up for hitching.

1/14/08

Why?

I was walking Liwanu today and ran into another dog walker out and about. The dog was a yellow lab mix (I'm pretty sure anyway) that had to be at LEAST 30lbs overweight! The woman proceeded to lecture me on Liwanu's lack of jiggling rolls and I finally blew my top after listening to her for about 2 minutes. I was on the trail so I couldn't easily ditch her and I decided just to be honest with her. I told her flat out her dog was obese and was going to suffer for her lack of common-sense when he got older (the dog is two). I explained to her that his hips and elbows were going to give out and he would eventually be unable to move on his own because of her need to show her love by feeding him garbage constantly. During this I watched her eyes grow to the size of dinner plates (Ok maybe small tea saucers) and then I got to the truly horrific part. All of the health complications that obesity leads to (not only in humans folks!) heart trouble, arthritis, risk of heart attack and stroke not to mention arterial blockage. That's when her lip started to quiver and I started thinking "Oh **it! She's gonna cry!". Well sure enough she burst into tears because she hadn't realized that she was killing her dog by giving him too many treats and not enough exercise. At this point I tried to tone it down a bit and be helpful (I hate seeing women cry, especially when it's my fault). Liwanu and I ended up accompanying her home because she wanted me to help her evaluate her food choices for the pup. An hour later we had managed to get her sorted out and now I'm supposed to meet her three days a week so we can walk our dogs together......*Sigh* the things my big mouth gets me into.

During this time Liwanu didn't try to eat her (which is amazing) he had no interest in her dog or her. Thankfully, since I don't think I would have been up to handling him during his lunging/snarling/'I'm gonna eat you' phase today. I've been sick and worn out lately so my energy isn't up to it's normal status.

This whole situation lead me to start wondering WHY people feed their animals in such an unhealthy way. Why do people see a fat dog and think 'It's well-loved' when in reality it's unhealthy, unhappy and at serious risk for medical problems. When we see the obese walking down the street do we think 'That person is well-loved'? NO We think 'They should go on a diet' or 'Gross'. How is it any different to feed an animal into morbid obesity and think that it is acceptable? A dog (or any animal) should be lean and fit. Not skinny and definitely not fat. They should have a waist and muscle definition rather than jiggling mounds of flesh making their lives miserable. Ever watch a fat dog try to run? They give up and lie down looking pathetic after a very short period of time.

1/13/08

Future Hopes

I'm currently a live-in nanny. Definitely not the job I ever thought about getting and not one I enjoy. It keeps me fed, sheltered and it's how I got Liwanu. One of the things I hate most about this lifestyle is that I have very little control over the treatment of my dog. My boss's husband is borderline abusive towards the animals in this house and towards his own children. He's emotionally abusive to the humans and physically towards the children and animals. My boss has finally gotten sick of it so she is searching for another place for her and her children, the dogs and I. If all goes well Mikazaru will never have to suffer at the hands of an idiot again. Most of Liwanu's issues come from the treatment he's suffered at the hands of my boss. He's only a pup but he's learned to bite before he can be bitten. Everyone please keep your fingers crossed that this works out like a dream.

On a happier note, I'm working on a short story about Liwanu from his point of view (or as close to it as I can get) I will also be writing one from my point of view. Not only about him and I but about my life before Dog. When I get far enough along (I'm only about 150 pages into the Liwanu side of the story) I'll post some excerpts. Maybe you all can tell me what needs improving at that time.

1/11/08

Helpful Life Tips.

Some of the most useful things I've ever been told. Some of them have helped me reach important decisions, others have kept me alive and some have made me laugh when I needed it most.

1) Don't Throw Rocks at Guys with Guns.
2) Check the mirror before you criticize.
3) Anything is edible if you've got a pot of water and a fire.
4) Cardboard and newspaper are great insulation.
5) You get what you pay for.
6) Aggression+Aggression=Escalated Aggression.
7) Courage is facing the music, no matter how bad it is.
8) It takes a strong man to hit someone, a stronger one to walk away.
9) My honor is my life.
10) Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
11) Never worry about tomorrow. Do the best you can each day.
12) Greet every sunrise as if it were the first, last and only.
13) Dance Sky-clad at least once a year.
14) Never rely on a doctor, they've been brainwashed.
15) An honest days work brings an honest days pay.
16) Always seek a personal connection with those around you. (NOT LIKE THAT YA FRIGGIN SICKOS!)
17) When 'it hits the fan, try not to fall apart so fast others get hit by the shrapnel.
18) All are one. What's right for you may not be right for everyone else. Respect it anyway.
19) Two legs are not better than four, six, eight or however many a creature has. In some ways it's worse.
20) Never ask a man called 'Rattlesnake' or 'Barber' why he's called that, you may get a not so lovely surprise. (Personal experience)



On the road with Dog


Traveling with Dog is harder than it would seem possible. Walking from town to town alone or with a road-dawg is cheesecake in comparison. When traveling by foot with bipedal companions people either think you are a criminal (IE rapist, serial killer etc) or they think your a good person who hit hard times. Traveling with a quadrupedal companion has every one screaming NEGLECT! ABUSE! Oh My GOD call the authorities!. Which really gets annoying after the third time you have to stay in a town without work or shelter for three days while the Humane Society evaluates the condition of your furry com padre. Now don't get me wrong, I fully support animal protection laws. I do in fact think there are several areas of animal law that could use a firm hand. Laws dictating animal welfare are laxly enforced which is what starts the whole problem in the first place.

I travel with a dog. More specifically, I travel with a large, aggressive mixed breed who would never be able to find a home in a more sedentary lifestyle. He lives to travel and will eagerly sit and wait looking out the window when he sees the pack and gear come out. Liwanu is a one person dog. He doesn't like human companionship other than my own. If this dog ended up in a shelter he would be euthanized immediately. Resource Guarding, territorial, fear-aggressive and highly reactive dogs with high prey drive are not good companions for those who want a cute little lap dog. They need all the running, physically exhausting exercise they can possibly get. What better way to meet these needs than hitting the road?

Which leads me to my newest mode of transportation. Scootering. Liwanu will be getting a harness as soon as he is 1 year old (February 20th). Then we will start training so that he can pull the Trike with me and our supplies. We'll start small and work our way up to the needed weight over time. Then we'll head out onto the open road again. So please, the next time you see a vagrant with backpack and a dog in tow view it with an open mind. That person may be the only reason that dog is alive. Just because we don't have a six bedroom house to live in doesn't mean we don't love, cherish and protect our furry partners.