A Note on Cats and Dogs

Growing up I heard a lot about cats and dogs fighting. It's a common misconception in America and the reference appears as a turn of phrase. The idea is that canines and felines don't get a long (fight like cats and dogs) are completely different (opposite as cats and dogs) and in general are incompatible with each other.

I can count on one hand the number of times that I've seen a cat and dog who were both well socialized at odds with each other. I currently reside in a house as a 'live-in nanny' where there are 4 dogs ranging from 7lbs (Hermes) to 25lbs (Aello) to 62lbs (Maxine) and ending with 85lbs (Liwanu). There are also two adult cats, mother and son, the female just had 5 kittens bringing the cat total to 7. There is mutual respect between both species and only the occasional dispute when one or the other gets too rough.

The adult male, Tiger, romps with the dogs and attends our walks. I often find myself saying 'he thinks he's a dog' even though that is a completely human concept. Tiger can rough-house with the best of them and displays many characteristics that would normally fall into the 'dog-realm' of life.

Maybe it's not their nature to be at odds with each other, maybe it's a role they fill because it's not in our nature to co-exist peacefully. Human beings do not have the inclination to develop benevolence. We are high-emotion, oppositional and apathetic as a species. It was our survival tool which led to us becoming the 'Apex Predator'. Because of our urge to humanize everything we often find ways to warp an animal's behavior so that we feel more of a companionship with them.

This tendency to displace our behaviors onto an animal is a HUGE disservice. By characterizing them we limit the possibilities within which they can live. It also leads to frustration, discomfort, fear, pain or death because we, the human, cannot understand why they, the humanized-animal, does something that they 'know' they aren't supposed to.