Another pending change

The top is Liwanu as a very young puppy. The bottom is Liwanu posed to the right (viewer's right) of his father, Damien.


Well, my boss/landlord "forgot" to pay the cable/internet bill for 3 MONTHS! so we lost the internet a week or two ago. Unable to get anything done I spent my days watching the fuzzy idiocy called TV and playing with the dogs.

Liwanu- Has begun showing less aggression towards strangers. Off-leash he's great but still needs people-work while on-leash. He's matured out a bit more and I'm actually thinking about finally getting his 'big-boy' collar and name tag. It really does seem like just the other day he was a tiny fluff ball. Now he's a huge cloddhopping beast.

Aello- Is still an energetic fluff ball although she's began to fill out into a more mature size. It's amazing how far she's come. When I got her she was an 8 lb little black thing with tiny little cut ears, now she's a 31lb black thing with cute bat ears. She's muscled and tall with a bit of brindling on her legs, face and chest.

It's amazing how fast they mature and grow. Their change from fluffy puppy to sleek adult truly brings home how quickly time goes by and that we should cherish them as long as we can. On a less sentimental note, I may be moving us out of here soon. I have to find out the rules and regulations for the two trailer parks and how much they'll work with me on rent/sec. deposit and then I'll know for sure. Hopefully I can pull this off. The good thing would be that the dogs and I would be safe and happier out there because I wouldn't have to deal with my boss other than for work related things. The downside is that I can't bring them on the bus with me so during the day they'd have to be crated for their safety.

I hate the idea of not being able to play with them all day every day but I've got to put their welfare ahead of my own selfish desires. If I can pull this off they will no longer be at the mercy of my boss's husband or broiling from my boss's unwillingness to get AC units. Liwanu is very sensitive to heat because he has a thick undercoat and Aello is black so heat is not a great thing for them to be exposed to.

A Note on Cats and Dogs

Growing up I heard a lot about cats and dogs fighting. It's a common misconception in America and the reference appears as a turn of phrase. The idea is that canines and felines don't get a long (fight like cats and dogs) are completely different (opposite as cats and dogs) and in general are incompatible with each other.

I can count on one hand the number of times that I've seen a cat and dog who were both well socialized at odds with each other. I currently reside in a house as a 'live-in nanny' where there are 4 dogs ranging from 7lbs (Hermes) to 25lbs (Aello) to 62lbs (Maxine) and ending with 85lbs (Liwanu). There are also two adult cats, mother and son, the female just had 5 kittens bringing the cat total to 7. There is mutual respect between both species and only the occasional dispute when one or the other gets too rough.

The adult male, Tiger, romps with the dogs and attends our walks. I often find myself saying 'he thinks he's a dog' even though that is a completely human concept. Tiger can rough-house with the best of them and displays many characteristics that would normally fall into the 'dog-realm' of life.

Maybe it's not their nature to be at odds with each other, maybe it's a role they fill because it's not in our nature to co-exist peacefully. Human beings do not have the inclination to develop benevolence. We are high-emotion, oppositional and apathetic as a species. It was our survival tool which led to us becoming the 'Apex Predator'. Because of our urge to humanize everything we often find ways to warp an animal's behavior so that we feel more of a companionship with them.

This tendency to displace our behaviors onto an animal is a HUGE disservice. By characterizing them we limit the possibilities within which they can live. It also leads to frustration, discomfort, fear, pain or death because we, the human, cannot understand why they, the humanized-animal, does something that they 'know' they aren't supposed to.

Puberty Strikes Again!

Liwanu's newest thing is humping. He's done it on and off for the past 7 months or so but never with as much single-mindedness as he is exhibiting right now. Furniture, people, animals and even random objects fall into his desire. It's odd. He's on Tardac (sp?) which is a chemical injection that acts much the same as neutering would. He shouldn't have this urge but for some odd reason, puberty has returned with a vengeance. His overall behavior is improving drastically.

He's madly in love with the kittens who were born to my boss's cat about 3 weeks ago. Is allowing people to walk past us at about 7 feet and even manages to remain sitting and focused when strangers appear to be walking towards us. I'm very proud of him. That, of course, leads me to another small tangent. Several of my friends train and compete in the area of Shutzhund. For those who don't know; Shutzhund is a sport which can be likened to the training a police dog receives in order to trail and apprehend a suspect. The main differences are: Shutzhund teaches the dog to target an obvious target such as a bite-suit or sleeve. They are temperament tested and should not display anti-social behaviors above what an ordinary dog might under stress. Police dogs are not well socialized and are taught to target the actual body of the suspect. That makes them a loaded gun in the wrong hands. While having a discussion on another forum yesterday I do believe, she brought up a very good point which applies to me and the way I tend to treat Liwanu.

"Many American breeding programs have bred out the natural tendencies of many breeds. Take a look at the German Dobies vs. there American counterparts. Two very different dogs....same thing with the GSD and soooo many other breeds. Americans think all dogs should be like labs so we breed for that temperament even if it's wrong. This is not all American programs but it is the majority. That is why on GSD's (and Dobies) we see a split between the working line and show line dogs. It is becoming harder and harder to find a dog that can do the work and place in the conformation ring."
----NATASHA Z CERNA KNEZA

While I don't compete in any field of dog sports nor do I have purebred dogs, I can see how that mindset is causing me to stress about and over-react to Liwanu's behavior. I had false expectations when I first got him. I had the typical 'lab' in mind. He was NOTHING like a lab! (Still isn't). His temperament is unique. Part of it is genetic and the other was learned in the environment he has grown up in. This combination has left me with a GREAT dog! He may never be dumb and overly-friendly (like a lab) but that is ok. He is great at being what and who he is.

He drives me nuts quite frequently however, I have learned more from him than any other dog I've ever met. Through him I've learned to control my temper, keep a tight rein on my emotions (he's what I say is a dog who runs high on emotion) and thoroughly research into things before implementing them. I've learned about training, diet and exercise as well as getting the wonderful opportunity to see my own reflection through him. He is my mirror, when I'm stressed he is cranky and when I'm excited he's hyperactive. This has become a valuable tool in self-realization as well as aiding me in my quest of self-improvement.